Monday, August 15, 2016

Oh they say when you're married in June...

We interrupt this program to bring you WEDDING PICTURES!!!!!! They are amazing and I love them! Yes my hair is a bit of a mess in some of them because of the wind, but I'm so happy to finally have something to remember how AWESOME that day was...so without further ado...

Everyone waiting outside the temple:

Erica and Mel trying to mend the great dress debacle of 2016.

The boys totally oblivious to the nearby disaster...

If there's a photographer around...
He will be shamelessly used. ;)
 The Grand Exit:

"Someone grab his bag!"

Awkwardly waiting for anyone to come up and talk to us...
Finally Midge makes the move!


The whole gang!
Los Amigos
The Messerly Group...apparently Rich thinks he's above us all...
Messerly Might!

Other than the fact the Loren didn't quite get out from behind Mel I LOVE this picture!




So sweet! :)

Ben and I had a good laugh about the fact that our fathers are the same in pictures...just stare at the camera and look slightly confused...love ya Dad!

And he says he's not photogenic...



Unfortunately, in all Ben's sibling pictures the wind was doing something bizarre to his hair...



The Bridesmaids!






The Men...who weren't really officially groomsmen, but just happened to be the three of Ben's friends who made it.
 After pictures of Ben and his dudes everyone was dismissed and we took a bunch of pictures of us! Be warned there may be some kissing pictures...the sun was so bright those were the best pictures we could get. Everything else was just us fighting to not squint!

Totally artsy...I love it!

LOVE the colors in this one!

Can you tell that veil has fallen out and had to be put back in about a THOUSAND times?


Just stand there, look at the camera, and smile. The hardest type of picture for us to pull off...but I think this one is nice!





I kind of like it...even though you can tell it's not a natural pose for us.
He's just too cute!
So there you have it!! Wedding pictures!! It was just the best day! I really want to let yall see these pictures so I'm just gonna do a quick highlight reel to wrap up this post.

Favorite moments:
Getting ready in the morning with my sisters. Four girls, one giant mirror.
Driving to the temple with Ben. It felt so natural and so bizarre at the same time.
Walking into the sealing room and seeing so many familiar smiling faces. Everyone I looked at was someone I loved and was so happy to see there!
Watching Ben get emotional as I covenanted to be his wife for eternity.
Hearing what sounded like a little emotion in Grandpa's voice as he gave me a hug and told me he loved me.
Seeing Missy walk up to me with tears streaming down her face as she hugged me and hurried out of the room.
Having our host couple tell us that was the most powerful sealing they've ever been to.
Having Mom with me to help me with my dress...the ribbon looked perfect Mom. :) Well done.
Hearing that Midge was going to be wearing some ugly shawl over her pretty dress because it busted before Mel and Erica fixed it.
Getting into an air conditioned car after taking pictures in the HOT sun.

Sunday, September 6, 2015

Big City Life

I wrote these two paragraphs back at the end of July...

Okay maybe this title is slightly misleading seeing that I've never actually been in downtown Portland and never plan to be...but you know me...always frontin. Anyways Oregon is being very good to me. Well actually I guess I should say Mel and Kip have been very good to me and Oregon doesn't really care about me in the slightest.

Midge and I have been living in Mel and Kip's house for the past month waiting for a basement to become available to us. I came out here knowing I would be working as a nanny part time. While I was searching for another part-time job one of Kips assistants gave her two weeks so I now work in his office. Mel motivates me to be healthy and workout. Occasionally I get to go to VillaSport with her. Pretty much I owe M and K my life. Which M reminds me each night as I'm trying to fall asleep. K was saying that it's pretty unique that I literally spend all my time with my bosses...it is definitely unique, but not bad!

Haha good stuff. Some things have changed...some things have not. I no longer sleep next to Midge on a camp mat on the floor of M and K's play room, I'm not playing Nanny Emy, and Mel no longer motivates me to be healthy. Haha I kid, I kid...sort of. However, Mel and Kip do still own me. Kip is my boss from 8:45-1 and 3-6 every day of the week and then Mel is my boss from 1-3 and 6-7. You see Mel got me a part time job at Insidetrack! So when I'm not Kip's receptionist I'm moonlighting at a flux member of Insidetrack. Basically I call people who initially showed interest in attending online classes, but we haven't heard from them since. It's very...stimulating.

Another thing that has changed since I wrote those paragraphs is that I actually did go to downtown Portland! For my job at ITK they wanted me to come into the office and do an unnecessary training. So the last Friday before I started full time at Kip's clinic I rode the MAX into Downtown Portland to go to my work office in the World Trade Center. Let's just say I felt pretty legit. I mean, no, I wouldn't want to do that everyday, but once in a blue moon it's sort of exciting. The office is beautiful and has an AWESOME view. Mel kept on telling me I needed to get a picture to put on snapchat...however I totally forgot until I was already headed home. :( So this is the only evidence I have of my time downtown...



As for my life outside of work it can pretty much be summed up by this gif:


I kid, I kid. Mel does a pretty good job of getting me invited to her friend's houses, and you know who needs friends when you have two adorable nephews?? I have met some nice people in my ward, but I think it's just hard for me to shoot for lasting relationships when I know my time here is very temporary. I'm trying to be better and have made an effort to be more involved in my ward recently, but still...

I am getting better at maintaining long distance relationships! I don't just mean with Ben...although we are basically pros at long distance now...


I've been better about keeping in touch with friends in Provo as well as some family members. Okay I'm not perfect, but I'm working on it! Facetime and skype man. That's my life now. Seriously. Sunday or Saturday I am pretty much always up to nothing...so feel free to call :)

Also did I mention Midge abandoned me?


I've never related to Patrick so much in my life...

I was going to end this post there, but since it's Sunday I'll leave you with a thought that has been helping me calm certain worries or concerns recently:

"We should always remember that mortal life, glorious as it is, was never the ultimate objective of God's plan. Life and death here on planet Earth were merely means to an end- not the end for which we were sent." -Elder Nelson #thistoshallpass

Blessings